No more BS in my life!
by Shanti Silos
If it doesn’t flow it has to go! My mom installed the best #selflove program in the world in me… She and my dad only missed installing one extremely important module. The one you learn when you are in an airplane: “In case of an emergency put the oxygen on yourself first and then on your child (or others).”
Help to Save the World
Nobody taught me how to do that. As a matter of fact, they showed me the opposite. The lack of that module in the #Selflove program that I have going on, it nearly killed me a couple of times.
Learning by Doing
I am SO proud of myself that I am learning to save myself first by getting clarity and setting strict boundaries on how I would let myself being treated and how I want to relate to the other person.
a Big Thing 4 Me
I love my current track record:
– I had a huge team (almost 15 people) who wanted to organise the 3rd Sparks of LIGHT festival last year and this year… I’m now working with just two of them who are really committed
– Managed to get out of my destructive relationship
– Stopped dating an amazing man who became to self destructive for me te keep interacting with. I’ve been focused on repairing and strengthening my self love
– Stopped working with almost all my LightWorks business partners (except for the ones that followed our 3 month Natural leadership & – entrepreneurship program or are aligned perfectly with our vision and way of working)
– A lot of people wanted to become a co-autor of our upcoming book about self love. I chose to team up with six of them. They all stopped working on the book project and without really looking for it I’ve found the best business partner I’ve ever had! I really LOVE working with her on the book project and ReLOVEution.
Will it ever be Part of my DNA?
The past 16 months have been the hardest and also the greatest months of my life. I broke down to my core (because I allowed my ex to crush me) AND I finally sank deep enough to go all the way for the last dreams that where and are on my plate! That last part is the best part ever, especially when coming out of such a difficult time. 2015 was a terrible year, financially as well as emotionally, and I’m still recovering from it.
“No more Drama in my Life”
I am happy that I somehow managed to find my mojo back (with a lot of love and care of my friends and some really required professional help.. mostly from my self love coach). I started to really live again. In this process I got many people inspired to join me on my self love & true love quest and had to say goodbye to most of them as well. Why? I’ve noticed that it’s hard to realise yourself and / or your dreams if you forgot who you are, what you want and where your heart is really longing for, along with what is blocking you. I became a leaf in the wind; I toook direction of whatever wind was blowing. I am so happy and proud that I finally got my GPS – intuition – up and running again. I am high on life again.
Shine Bright like a Diamond
I want to to stop attracting ‘leaves in the wind’ (as well as being one) and work and be with shining stars from now on… Or at least with people who know their worth and are working towards self actualisation. I believe that deep inside we all are all shining stars, but sometimes we forget that we are. We believe that we are that leaf that is (constantly) caught by the wind. I mean, just last year I was that leaf. Because I floated into the dark cave my ex boyfriend was hiding in from the world so I could be with him, for he didn’t know how to be with me in my world where light has the upper hand. I stranded in his world, his ‘ comfortzone’. I am happy that I finally woke up from that nightmare and that I’m becoming that shining star again! I got out of the ravine, at the base of the mountain… Getting ready for an amazing ride, strapping on my wings to fly to the top of it, to the true destiny of my life.
